
“Las Las, Everybody Go Dey Alright” – But Are We?
The phrase, “Las las, everybody go dey alright,” has become a national anthem for coping mechanisms or resilience in Nigeria whenever things go south.
Love Maps are a powerful tool for building and maintaining healthy, happy relationships. A Love Map visually represents a person’s understanding of their partner’s thoughts, feelings, and needs. It is a way for couples to deepen their connection and increase their intimacy, and it is especially important for premarital relationships and couples in marriage counseling. Let me explore the importance of Love Maps, how they can be used to build a strong foundation for a successful relationship, and how Talk Space Counseling can help couples create and maintain Love Maps.
The concept of Love Maps was developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, a couple who have been studying relationships for over 40 years. And as a Level-2 Gottman Method Couples Therapy trainee and a specialist in Treating Affairs and Trauma, I have assisted 100s couples navigate different phases of marital journeys.
Let me compare Love Maps to Google Maps in the sense that they represent the route to finding and nurturing a successful relationship. Just like Google Maps provides directions from one location to another, love maps guide individuals toward building healthy and fulfilling relationships.
Love Maps can include information about personal preferences, interests, values, attitudes toward intimacy, emotional expression, and communication. They help individuals understand what they want and need in a relationship, and how to express these desires and needs to their partner.
Similar to Google Maps, love maps may also provide warnings and alerts, such as red flags and potential roadblocks that may hinder the success of a relationship. They help individuals anticipate potential conflicts and avoid unnecessary detours.
How can couples create and maintain Love Maps? Creating and maintaining Love Maps requires active listening, observation, and communication. Here are some strategies that couples can use to build and maintain Love Maps:
Love Maps is a tool to help individuals navigate and successfully navigate the journey of building and maintaining a healthy and satisfying relationship. If you are struggling in your relationship, consider seeking the help of a trained therapist.
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